This is a personal thing. I’m most definitely NOT trying to say that all TV made by queer people for queer people is the same, or that it’s not good or not worth watching.
I’m really glad it’s out there.
But you know how sometimes one extreme leads to another? I think queer people feeling the need to HIDE who they were from society for so long made our TV shows into a kind of one-trick-unicorn.
At the moment, it seems like Queer TV can–for the most part–be broken up into two categories:
- Over-the-top reality shows (contests, drag race, hunky hunks, etc.)
- Ensemble casts in the big city having-lots-o’-sex and dancing at night clubs
I don’t happen to identify with either of those types of shows. I’m sorry to say it, but glitter gets everywhere. And one of my favorite colors is gray.
I’m not really interested in sex, and would much rather spend the night in, reading a book, rather than going to a club. As a not-very-sexual (or romantic) person, I find myself thinking “Isn’t there anything else in the world we could focus on right now?” There’s more to the queer experience than relationship drama.
All I’m saying is that I wish queer TV embraced variance among queer people a bit more. We’re not all the same. Shocker.
My whole life I’ve felt like an outcast both with the popular kids and the outcasts. And that’s still true. That’s why I want to make a show for us betwixt-and-betweeners.
I didn’t fit before and I don’t fit now, and I’ll probably never fit.
I’ve always wanted desperately to make the kind of media I want to see. And what I’m most fascinated by is the human experience as a whole.
I want to write about the experiences we humans have which make us feel the most alone, yet which are arguably the most universal:
Why does no one love me?
Why do people seem to like me better when I don’t act like myself?
Why is every single person in the world happier and more successful than me?
Why do I feel so alone?
What is the meaning of it all?
As I’m writing these down, I’m realizing you need to have a certain amount of luxury to worry about these things. I’ll definitely take that into consideration.
I also realized that I might be trying to make entertainment for the introspective. The overly-introspective. The introspective-to-a-fault types. Which is most definitely not everyone.
I love the idea of making mindless entertainment which is not mindless. You can enjoy it without thinking, but if you want to think, there’s plenty to sink your brain-teeth into.
What’s more, the highly dysfunctional characters remind you that you’re not alone. If you can learn to love and empathize with characters who are so imperfect, maybe you can empathize a little bit more with yourself.
So let’s keep being ourselves, in our many, many forms. Let’s begin to recognize that while it’s absolutely fantastic to embrace our sexuality, there’s also people out there who don’t really relate to that.
Yes, I did take time out of my usual gay agenda to complain about the overuse of hunky, shirtless men on TV.
I hope I’m not alone here, or the show I’m developing will have no audience whatsoever.
It’s a very tricky task to represent everybody. And there certainly are shows out there which portray a variety of queer identities and types of people, and do an amazing job with it.
But I want more…